losers - jealousy

I don't know why, but I think this world is so full of losers who like to mess with people, especially with people who are more successful than them and those who have something they don't have, i.e. money, carrier, reputation, beauty, love, intelligence etc. I loathe this kind of people.

Perhaps, jealousy is the word to describe this kind of people. It often happens when others have something the losers want. Instead of doing good or going for what they want in fair manners, they try to take it away and bring them down by evil means. Bad-mouthing and back-stabbing are just what losers commonly do to get other people believe.

I am saying this because I realize that as life goes on, when you are successful, not many people will like you - not even when you are doing the right thing. In reality, some 'friends' want to screw you real hard until you lose your determination and patience. They are there to steal everything from you. And very often, they do it for the love of it. In fact, it costs them nothing to go around screwing people up.

Yet I think sometimes humans think in such a way that they don't like to see others winning. It's okay if they are doing nothing when they are jealous of other people's success. It's okay also to be jealous of others and at the same time do something positive about it for personal self-improvement. But it is never okay to bad-mouth them directly or indirectly when they in fact have nothing good against them.

On my part, I think I have more to learn on transforming my jealousy of others into positive endeavour for self-development. I also need ways to deal with real losers. I love to punch them if I can, but I don't think it would be enough. There is a popular saying my close juniors in maktab used to imitate, 'If you hit me, I hit you back HARDER'.